April 15th, 2013
March 4th, 2013

17, Female. 6 Years ago when I was on An online game ( I wasn't Christian yet) This Boy I didn't know Came up 2 me and asked me 2 be his girlfriend, Foolishly, I said yes. Thats all that happened. He never came back online after that. SO, I never Got to break up with him. Everyones telling me i shouldn't worry, And that Im not in a relationship with him, and God wouldnt hold me accountable. I feel like I am his girlfriend! I know he doens't even remember me. Am I single, can I get a Boyfriend?
Asketh - Anonymous

If it’s been that long and he hasn’t even contacted you, then I don’t think it’s really official any more. I would say you’re single! :D 

-Grace

January 16th, 2013
January 10th, 2013

By the way,

When I say “oh come now,” I mean that in the most comforting way possible. Like with a hug

And things signed “Justin” under standingfast is the same person as previewofthoughts.

January 8th, 2013

Female (16) / Well in the last time I'm working really hard at having a wonderful inner beauty. But somehow it won't work. These bad thoughts won't go away. I don't wanna be like that average girl, I want to be special. I would like to tell God about this but it feels like I'm begging the whole time for something and I'm afraid that he'll say someday 'No, Girl. All you want me to do is help you!. I just don't know what to do, want to be a good person with a wonderful heart. Do you have an advice
Asketh - Anonymous

Oh come now. No need to be downhearted. You can tell God anything and He will answer and He does love you. God won’t tell you “no” for the sake of saying no, or that you’re annoying Him. God will answer you and he has His reasons behind his answers. Nothing is immediate and patience is a virtue. He may say yes, and you’ll see something soon, or he may say no, I have something better for you. Keep praying. Keep asking. Don’t be afraid :)

-Justin

January 5th, 2013

i prayed God for letting me build a relationship with the guy i like. It may sound stupid but i even promised God make a sacrifice to show him how much i wanted it. But know school is over and I may never see this guy again. I havent broke my promise to God but I dont know if i should keep waiting for him to answer my prayer. hold on to something that may not happen Is painful
Asketh - Anonymous

I know how hard that can be. Sorry that you have to go through that pain. Maybe switch your prayer from “Help me get together with this guy” to “Lord, Your will be done in my life!!”  

Crazy things will happen when you do that. It’ll blow your mind :) God wants immeasurably more in your life. 

December 21st, 2012

14, female. I'm not baptized but i do believe in God and i do pray. Does God hate me, am i going to Hell?
Asketh - Anonymous

Not at all. God loves every one of us, baptized and non-baptized.

Baptism, however, is the first step to giving ourselves fully to God. It is the first of God’s graces we receive from the Holy Spirit and washes ourselves clean of the stain of original sin. Not receiving God’s graces doesn’t mean we can’t get to heaven or anything, but in receiving them, it will make things easier to get to heaven.

Have a blessed day :)

-Justin

December 17th, 2012
December 9th, 2012

I love your blog. Thank you for that. ♥
Asketh - Anonymous

And we love you, darling :)
Have a blessed day!

December 8th, 2012

I need some motivation for doing sports but I don't know how to motivate myself. any advice? :))
Asketh - Anonymous

Find someone who will push you to get better and motivate you. For example, I haven’t been running recently because I’ve been so busy with school and work, but my dad has been running… Now, my dad isn’t like out of shape or anything, but I’ve always been faster than him for as long as I can remember. When he started running, it didn’t really scare me because I was just going to rely on my always being able to beat him. But he’s worked really hard, and the last 5k he ran, he wayyy beat my PR! So, now I’m really scared! Haha, I have to catch up to his pace. Now I’m working my butt off to make sure I’m better! 

By finding someone like that who will push you to get better, you’ll self motivate. It’s the competitive spirit inside us all :) 

Hope this helped!

Grace